For kids with a healthy self-image and varied interests, music probably has little or no influence on their values and lifestyle choices. However, parents should be aware that violent, racist, homophobic or sexist lyrics in much of today's popular music could have an impact on impressionable young people who are just developing a sense of identity and self-worth. Parents should challenge these kinds of negative representations and discuss them with their kids.

Music preferences can be a warning sign of a distressed teen. Isolated, angry or depressed youth may be attracted to music that feeds their feelings of despair and hostility.

Numerous studies indicate that a preference for heavy metal music may be a significant marker for alienation, substance abuse, psychiatric disorders, suicide risk, sex-role stereotyping or risk-taking behaviours during adolescence. (Source: American Academy of Pediatrics, 1999)

If your child is withdrawn and alienated from peers, or shows violent tendencies towards self or others, pay attention to what music is being listened to. Use the Checklist for Violent Youth (on the right-hand side of this page) for identifying signs of potential violence. Make sure the child's mental health needs are being addressed through appropriate school, medical or social-service counselling.